The Third Space

This book is a narrative of Agi Gault’s life interspersed with a collection of her poems that describe her personal experience of going through the care system in the United Kingdom as an adopted and abused child.

Agi has said that “My experience of coming up through the care system is not unique. There are thousands and thousands of people with stories similar to mine.”  Sadly, we only rarely hear directly from young people in the care system in this way and while many are helped, many also feel confused and lost in the system.

Agi wants The Third Space to be a catalyst for change for how children’s services and other agencies support children in their care or who are adopted to remain connected to their birth families.

The Third Space is exclusively available for order for Kindle/tablet download via Amazon.




“It’s very easy for social workers and children’s services agencies to believe they are helping children who are in care and this self-belief is reflected when we tell each other we are ‘acting in the child’s best interests’ which is a phrase I hate. The sad reality in children’s services is we only rarely hear directly from the young person themselves and while many are helped, many also feel confused and lost in the system.

Agi Gault has spent her life time dealing with the legacy of a childhood in the care system that she describes as living in ‘the third space’. This space being something of a nether region where carers and social workers were sure they were there for Agi while Agi’s overwhelming feeling was that she was an outsider to what was happening. Agi has been incredibly courageous to dive into her life experience striving first to make sense of it for herself and then create this incredibly honest and incredibly well written book.

I am very thankful that Agi has had the courage to write this book because all children’s services professionals whether field staff or leaders need to read it. This book is doubly important because Agi not only grew up in the care system she has worked as a social worker within the child services for much of her adult life. The crucial challenge Agi raises is about belonging and connection – Agi tells us that like so many looked after children she felt she was being treated as a problem to be solved rather than a child to be cherished and loved. To be able to better create lasting connection and belonging for children in the care system we need to listen Agi!”

The Third Space is exclusively available to download on Kindle/tablet via Amazon.